“Gossip is Like Cutting Open a Feather Pillow”
August 12, 2025
Gossip is a simple word, yet it carries a heavy weight. It can flutter through conversations with the lightness of a feather and wreak havoc like a storm. This thought was driven home to me after reading a children’s book entitled, “Mr. Peabody’s Apples”. The main character in the book is Mr. Peabody, an elementary school teacher who spends his summer coaching a boy’s little league team.
One Saturday morning, after a game, a young boy, Tommy, sees Mr. Peabody take an apple from the farmers’ market and walk away without paying for it. By the following Saturday, Tommy had spread the rumor that Mr. Peabody was a thief. As a result, none of the boys showed up for the game that day.
Spoiler alert ahead. Mr. Peabody paid for his apple each Saturday on the way to the game, and then picked it up after the game. But Tommy didn’t see that, and spread the rumor that Mr. Peabody stole the apple. Once Mr. Peabody learned that Tommy was responsible for the gossip, he summoned Tommy to meet him at the baseball field with a pillow and a pair of scissors. Even though the request was odd, Tommy complied. It was a beautiful, breezy day and Mr. Peabody has Tommy climb to the top of the bleachers, cut open the feather pillow, and watch the feathers fly over the entire town. Mr. Peabody explained to Tommy that the feathers represented each person who listened to Tommy’s gossip. And then Mr. Peabody told Tommy to gather each feather that had scattered in the wind and put them back into the pillow. Tommy said it was impossible, to which Mr. Peabody exclaimed, “Just as it is impossible to undo the damage you did with your words.”
The feather pillow is a profound metaphor for the nature of gossip. A feathery pillow, filled with the softest down, is cut open and in an instant its contents spill out, and scatter. Once the feathers are scattered, trying to gather them back into the pillow is a daunting task. Similarly, it’s often challenging to mend the damage done by gossip. The relationships that are strained, the trust that is broken, aren’t things that can be easily repaired.
We may think that gossip is harmless, or a good means of connecting with others. What begins as a simple exchange of information can morph into something more damaging. Once words are spoken, they can linger in the air like errant feathers, sometimes landing where they shouldn’t, leading to unintended consequences.
Scripture is rich with warnings about the dangers of gossip and slander. Gossip can appear innocuous or even entertaining at times, but the damage it can cause is incalculable. It can destroy reputations, ruin friendships, and leave irreparable scars. Proverbs 16:28 tells us, “…a gossip separates close friends.” Gossip doesn’t just create rifts; it actively works to divide relationships and sow discord.
Both the Biblical admonitions against gossip and the lessons encapsulated in “Mr. Peabody’s Apples” encourage us to reflect on the words we speak. We are reminded that kindness, truthfulness, and love should govern our conversations. Ephesians 4:29 states, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.”
May we strive to be the guardians of thoughtful communication, ensuring that our words are tools for good rather than instruments of harm. After all, every feather counts!